You’re worried that your ceremony could turn out dull or awkward or flat-out boring. You don’t even know where to start to make sure it isn’t.

Yes, the person you’ve asked to officiate your wedding is someone you love and trust… but they’ve never done it before.

It feels like the most uncertain part of your wedding day.

A lot of brides and grooms try to prevent their friend from being dull and awkward and lost – by stepping in.

They’re already so busy planning their wedding, and then they take on the researching and writing and sending their officiant scripts and templates they dig up from here and there.

But you don’t know much about this stuff either – how to guide your officiant through the details. Or how to make the ceremony personal. Or what to look for when it comes to the stage directions and the moving parts and the starting and ending of a wedding ceremony and what to rehearse so it all goes smoothly….

A downloaded “here-ya-go” script doesn’t come close to helping a first-time officiant feel proud and confident and 100% prepared for the wedding day.

It doesn’t exactly inspire any excitement in you, either.

Of course, the alternative is: just let ’em figure it out on their own. Then you can either hover like a helicopter parent keeping tabs on their progress… or just stay out of it, keeping your fingers crossed and hoping they do okay.

Unboring!Officiant is the solution.

When I became a professional officiant years ago, I created a guaranteed ceremony method for my own officiating practice that gets rave reviews from amazed couples and wedding guests every weekend.

But I can only be in one place at one time, and I’m booked solid. So I started sharing my method with the world.

Now, brides and grooms and officiants and wedding guests across the globe are experiencing the pure joy of an unboring, professional ceremony that’s actually a blast and blows everyone away!

Unboring!Officiant is a full online course with direct live support from me – a full-time pro.

That means your new officiant gets the know-how – and you get your dream ceremony!

From your ceremony planning meeting to sending you down the aisle just-married, your officiant will be completely confident and know exactly how to build a fun and riveting ceremony and what to expect at every step – down to the last detail.

And here’s the best part. you’ll be so excited to get down the aisle and see what your friend is about to deliver: the laughs and tears and all the feels that will make your unboring ceremony the very best part of your day.

Here’s how brides and grooms are raving about their unboring wedding!

“We had the best wedding ceremony ever! How do we know? Because everybody told us so!”

— Trevor and Jennifer

“Initially the ceremony wasn't something I was looking forward to....until we stumbled across Mark's approach, and knew it was a great fit for making the day super special for us! The ceremony ended up being my most favourite part of the whole day, and the delivery of our story was awesome, and extremely special. The ceremony was everything and more than we could have hoped for. The best!”

— Katie and Daniel

“My husband and I are still so over the moon about the amazing ceremony we had for our big day. I think every single guest came up to us at one point to tell us that the ceremony is the best ceremony they have ever been to. The entire process was so organized, making it one less thing to worry about while planning. I could go on and on about how amazing our experience was. Weddings should be fun and exciting. Ours definitely was! We are so thrilled. Starting off with an 'unboring wedding' is the ONLY way to go!”

— Julie and Ryan

“Mark made it so easy for my husband and I to feel completely stress-free about everything - and confident in the process. Everyone was complimenting us on the ceremony for days afterwards. All of our guests were all in total awe of how fun, personal, romantic and moving everything was! My husband and I could not have imagined it going any more magical than it did... and it's all thanks to Mark.”

— Liron and Matt

“Mark makes the whole process a breeze and thinks of every small detail to help you craft the most wonderful, romantic and personal ceremony. Something so perfectly matched, just for you. Our wedding was a month ago and our guests are still raving about how unique our ceremony was. We can't say enough good things!”

— Jenny and Scott

“Our officiant managed to put our love in words and had everyone smiling/crying the whole ceremony. The story he created was so beautiful, genuine and hilarious. I think every single guest has told us how we had the 'best ceremony ever' and just simply how amazing our officiant was. He set the tone for a fun, heartfelt, unboring night. We cannot thank Mark enough. Our day was truly a dream come true.”

— Christina and Ian

“Our ceremony was personal, funny and touching. Every one of our guests loved it! We received so many calls and compliments the next day, letting us know the ceremony was one of the best speeches and weddings they had been to in a long time. Our ceremony one of the best experiences at our wedding.”

— Marie and Steve

Just what will they get with the course?

When your friend has the step-by-step blueprint to building a ceremony that 100% works, it means no more guesswork for them. And no unpleasant ceremony surprises for you.
And it means a wedding that’s fresh and fun and… totally you!
And your guests will absolutely rave about it!
Unboring!Officiant is the blueprint. It’s the step-by-step digital course that walks your officiant through exactly how to plan, create, rehearse, and officiate a wedding ceremony and gives them every tool and resource they need.
Plus, it includes 1-on-1 coaching and a community of officiants just like them.
The entire Unboring!Officiant system is discounted from $597 to only $297 USD this month! Your officiant will get full access and can get started the moment you send them their special login link.
All modules. All downloads. All bonuses. It’s instant relief with all the A-Z resources, step-by-step guidance, and full support.
This training makes sure they don’t need to impose on you with unnecessary meetings and questions – so you can stay focused on all those other wedding day details!
Step One: Conduct a Thorough Workshop
  • Exactly how they can conduct a one-hour brainstorm/planning session with you.
Step Two: Build a Concise Storyboard
  • Exactly how to build a concise storyboard with all the data and intel they’ll need to write an awesome ceremony story – about you!
Step Three: Create a Clear Script
  • Exactly how to put together a clear, “movie-style” script.
Step Four: Write a Moving Story
  • Exactly how to write a fun and moving story that will thrill you and wow your guests!
Step Five: Run an Assertive Rehearsal
  • Exactly how to run a tight and fun rehearsal.
Step Six: Officiate a Relaxed Wedding
  • How to be a relaxed and confident presence on the wedding day.
Bonus One: Samples
  • Sample Vows, Scripts, and Stories to copy and adapt.
Bonus Two: Video Demo
  • Story Reading Demonstration: I read one of my full signature stories to give you a sense of the pacing and tone that works best.
Bonus Three: Checklists
  • Workflow and Rehearsal Checklists to make sure they don’t miss any details!
Bonus Four: Email Copy
  • Email Copy to copy/paste all the emails they’ll ever need to send in the ceremony creation process!
Bonus Five: Facebook Group
  • Private, Members-Only Facebook Group to jump into the Unboring!Officiant community for some love and support!
VIP Bonus Six: Private Coaching
  • Personal 1-on-1 Coaching for a ceremony read-over and a 30-minute coaching call with me!

Here’s what first-time officiants are saying!

“I officiated my first wedding this weekend! The couple was thrilled with the ceremony. The course and all of the info made it so easy. I got compliments from nearly half of the guests ranging from 'You’re a professional' to 'You should run for Congress' to 'I’ve been to a ton of weddings but this was the best ceremony I’ve ever seen!' I couldn’t believe that people actually enjoyed it enough to come out of their way to tell me. It was such an amazing experience - I’m so glad that I said yes to this! Again, thanks to Mark for all of the help and advice.”

— Ally Dubrosky, First-Time Officiant

“The parents and guests raved about the ceremony. I was able to be super prepared thanks to Mark Allan Groleau's Unboring!Officiant course. Thank you! Best investment I ever made!”

— Ebony Mzila, First-Time Officiant

“I spoke with the bride and groom a couple of days after, and they said that people are still coming up to them talking about that ceremony and how good it was. Nobody could believe it was my very first ceremony. Thanks again for making me look like a pro!”

— Dana Crouse, father of the bride


“Unboring!Officiant changed my life.”

— Kathryn Rowan Lischerelli, Friend of the Couple, First-Time Officiant

“Not only does Mark provide an incredibly clear, comprehensive and thoughtful guide to help officiate an amazing wedding, he does it with a very accessible, easy-to-understand, step-step-step plan. He really does take rookies and makes them pros!”

— Christa Hesselink, nonprofit exec

“I performed my first wedding with confidence and it was far beyond expectations! Mark's course took my fear away because it gave me the tools to excel. Even better, I received rave reviews and on-the-spot positive feedback. Thank you, Mark and Unboring!Officiant - you showed me how to get the party started!”

— Elizabeth Phillips, newly-professional officiant

“My first wedding was a huge success! Everything was perfect. Lots of laughs, a few tears (none by me!) and many guests coming up later to say how much they loved it. The script was personal. Everybody was so pleased. I appreciate you took the time to call and coach me last week. I made all the changes you recommended and it was perfect. Much gratitude!”

— Rebecca Thompson, Newly-Professional Officiant

“I was told by the bride and groom that they loved the ceremony and that they had people saying they loved it! In fact, the groom said he had more people complimenting the ceremony than he did saying he looked good! I already had someone asking the bride if she thought I might do his wedding later this year! I can’t thank you enough for the course and the attention to detail you provide. You were truly a godsend! Thank you, thank you!”

— Bruce Montgomery, Father of the Bride

Unboring!Officiant comes with a 30-day, 100% money-back guarantee.

If within 30 days, you or your officiant are unhappy for whatever reason, just email me and you will receive a full refund. I stand behind Unboring!Officiant 100%, and every month I help transform perplexed first-timers into confident masters of the ceremony who get rave reviews.

$597.00 297.00


After purchase you’ll get a gift enrollment link to send to your officiant instantly!

6 CLEAR, Easy-to-Follow Steps

24 TRAINING Videos

10 AWESOME Bonuses

ALL My Scripts & Templates


30 MINUTES of Personal Coaching

30-day 100% Money Back Guarantee


$597.00 297.00


After purchase you’ll get your own login link instantly!

6 CLEAR, Easy-to-Follow Steps

24 TRAINING Videos

10 AWESOME Bonuses

ALL My Scripts & Templates


30 MINUTES of Personal Coaching

30-day 100% Money Back Guarantee

Got questions first? Email me directly at [email protected]


Will this course make my officiant legally certified to register weddings in my province or state?

No. While anyone can officiate a wedding ceremony, everywhere is different on the legal end of things. They have to fulfill whatever legal obligations are required of your state or province to register weddings with your local government.

Do they get access to everything all at once or do they have to wait?

No waiting! They get access to everything right away. They can attack the material at any pace they want.

What exactly do I get with the course?

Great question! As soon as you purchase, you will get a link with code that you can send to your officiant immediately. They will get immediate access (via user name and password) to the entire Unboring!Officiant program. If you decide to purchase for yourself, you get immediate access.

  • Lifetime access and login 24/7 (it is all digital so they can login to access the content & download the materials).
  • Content is available in video they can stream, and slides and tools they can download.

Is this course right for them? Meaning, will it "work" for them?

OK, so everyone’s situation is a little bit different and of course I can’t guarantee results (or some dudes with suits would probably show up to my door and we would have a problem), but I can give you the EXACT blueprint for success with this and all the tools, strategies and step-by-step hand-holding.

The course is definitely right for them if: they’ve been asked to officiate for you have no idea where to start or how to put a wedding ceremony together. 

The key “requirement” I’d say is definitely a positive attitude, being an action-taker and being “coachable.” Also, a real desire to not only learn BUT ACTUALLY IMPLEMENT (and a positive attitude always helps). I wish I would have known this stuff years ago when I started officiating (and learned it even earlier than I did). But I bumbled along for a few years cobbling ceremonies together, seeing what worked, and finding out “on the job” what didn’t work. (ouch). The course is NOT for them if: they are expecting “overnight results” with “very little effort/work involved” this; if this is them, my friend, then this is not for them.

I give them the EXACT blueprint and tell them want to do, but only they can actually do it, and yes, it involves getting in the trenches and doing work (that being said, I will take tons of time off their learning curve which is another benefit of the course). If they have a negative, crappy attitude, please don’t buy the course. Life is too short and we probably won’t get along – hah! Also, and this is a big one, if they “know all of this already and are a smarty, smarty pants” this might not be for them. My guess is I will be sharing with them in the course SOME things they already know and A LOT OF things they probably don’t do. But, this is the secret sauce, it is all put together as a system for them to go at it step-by-step. If they come in with the attitude that they know everything and are looking for some kind of magic fairy dust, this ain’t for them.

How long on average will it take for them to get results?

This obviously varies person to person with lots of factors. Everyone works at different speeds!

In a nutshell though: they could use this system to finish your ceremony in about 3-4 weeks if they fast-track it. Comfortably, I teach a 6-week process for creating the perfect ceremony from start to finish.

Now, of course that’s not 6 weeks of straight working on the ceremony! This 6 weeks includes sending a survey to you and waiting a week, and then sending a survey to your friends and family and waiting another week. A lot of the 6 weeks is waiting – they don’t want to be holding your feet to the fire when you’re working so hard spinning so many plates planning your wedding day.

As I say in the course: I have this system down to 12 total hours. Yep. 12 hours of total work – INCLUDING 4 HOURS OF COMMUTE TIME to and from the rehearsal and ceremony (yeah, traffic is a pain). It will might take them a bit longer as a first-timer, but my 1-on-1 coaching call and direct support is designed to cut that down.

Do they really get lifetime access?

YES! Whoop, whoop! That means never pay again!

Is Unboring!Officiant really step-by-step?

Absolutely! No guesswork. Just follow the system.

What side do the men stand on and what side do the ladies stand on in the ceremony?

Hey, focus! We’re not talking about that right now! (But the answer is: men on the right, women on the left. 😛 )

How long does it take to go through the course?

Each of the 6 steps is on average just under an hour – several “action” videos on average about 20 minutes each.

They can watch everything before they get started on your ceremony, or they can build your ceremony along as they go, step-by-step.

Mark, what if I want a refund? What's the policy?

So, here is the deal on refunds: I pride myself on a high quality program that actually works…if they put the work in. Meaning, if they do what I teach, good things happen. If they don’t do it, nothing good happens. Shocking, right? 🙂 If within 30 days, they’re unhappy for whatever reason, just email our customer support and you will receive a full refund. I stand behind Unboring!Officiant 100%.

I have a question, who should I ask?

Email me at [email protected]!

Will I get anything via snail mail?

Nope! Everything takes place online (all digital!) and not only can they login anytime they want (and go at their own pace), they can also download all the tools and take them along wherever.

Who gets seated last? The mother of the bride or the mother of the groom?

Geeez! You just can’t stop thinking about your ceremony logistics for just two minutes, eh?? (Okay, the answer is: the mother of the bride gets seated last. But can we get back to talking about the course, please…? :P)

When I buy the course as a gift, do I get access as well?

The membership and training is just for your friend or family member to access. As part of the training, I teach how they will share with you the relevant script and survey and story so you can collaborate along with them as it comes together.