The A-To-Z system that teaches NOTARIES to CRAFT a wedding CEREMONY EXPERIENCE that your couple and their guests will actually love

What’s Unboring!Officiant?

THE Notary coach and MARK allan groleau have teamed up to bring you the proven, STEP-BY-STEP, How-to wedding officiating system + ALL THE TOOLS

 Did you think delivering a wedding ceremony that blows people away was just for the seasoned pros?

It probably was. Until now.

Unboring!Officiant doesn’t just teach you how to write, rehearse and officiate a full, professional-quality ceremony.

Unboring!Officiant takes you by the hand and teaches you how to craft the kind of total experience that your couple and their guests will actually love.

My proven program is your step-by-step blueprint. It’s what I do every weekend, and I give you all my secrets. It’ll make you one of the best right out of the gate.

You get all my exact scripting to keep, adapt, and use for yourself. You get all the instruction videos, templates, interactive tools, everything.

And the best part:

You get the proven results that’ll have everyone in the room saying it was one of the best wedding ceremonies they’ve ever seen.


Start with my full professional script, and build out from there.

Unboring!Officiant is a 6-module step-by-step digital course that walks you through exactly how to plan, create, rehearse, and officiate a wedding ceremony and gives you every tool and resource you need to make it quick and simple.

  • Login 24/7 (all digital with downloadable tools, templates, and samples).
  • Literally step-by-step from the first couple planning session to the end goal – the wedding day. Nothing is left out. No unnecessary fluff or shenanigans.
  • Every tool I use in my professional process so you never have to look at a blank screen and agonize over what to write.
  • My ceremony planning spreadsheet, email copy, couple survey forms, full ceremony script, story worksheet, and way, way more!
The ultimate all-in-one wedding officiant training

UNBORING!OFFICIANT is the A-To-Z blueprint to deliver a smashing wedding ceremony experience with total confidence LIKE A PRO.

Step One: Conduct a Thorough Workshop
  • Exactly how to conduct a one-hour brainstorm/planning session with your couple.
  • 5 video action steps for guiding your couple through all the details, options, and elements of their ceremony.
  • My downloadable Google Sheets spreadsheet to fill out with the couple in the session.
Step Two: Build a Concise Storyboard
  • Exactly how to build a concise storyboard with all the data and intel you need to write an awesome ceremony story about your couple.
  • 3 video action steps teaching you exactly how to adapt, send, and use my Google Forms templates to email your couple and their family and friends.
  • My downloadable Google Forms – yours to keep forever!
Step Three: Create a Clear Script
  • Exactly how to put together a clear, “movie-style” script.
  • 4 video action steps for building out the wording, stage directions, times, and people – and making the working script sharable with your couple.
  • My downloadable Google Docs ceremony script template for you to use for your own wedding.
Step Four: Write a Moving Story
  • Exactly how to write a fun and moving story that will thrill your couple and wow their guests!
  • 5 video action steps that walk you through exactly how to write the distinct sections of the story and practice the delivery.
  • And this is where I really give away the farm: my downloadable Google Docs story script and template for you to swipe and adapt. What’s mine is now all yours!
Step Five: Run an Assertive Rehearsal
  • Exactly how to run a tight and fun rehearsal.
  • 4 video action steps on exactly how to lead your couple and all their family and friends through the walking, standing, and most important choreography of the ceremony.
  • Covers the 3 parts of a 40-minute rehearsal and what to look for + my downloadable checklist you can bring right into the rehearsal. 
Step Six: Officiate a Relaxed Wedding
  • How to be a relaxed and confident presence on the wedding day (when everyone else is a stress-ball!).
  • 3 video action steps on exactly what to check for and how to connect with vendors when you arrive.
  • What to say to begin the ceremony so you can tastefully break the ice and get all the guests warmed up and “on your side.”

“The ceremony was fabulous and fun and I got tons of compliments all night. I’m so pleased! Thank you so much for your guidance!” – Aly A.

wait… there’s more?


  • Sample Vows: Look no further for a menu of perfect vows for your script!
  • A Full Sample Wedding Script: See exactly what your finished ceremony will look like!
  • 10 Sample Stories: To inspire your style and content!
  • Story Reading Demonstration: I read one of my full trademark stories to give you a sense of the pacing and tone that works best.
  • Workflow Checklist: Check off exactly what tasks you’ve completed so nothing falls through the cracks!
  • Rehearsal Checklist: Bring this right into the rehearsal to make sure you don’t miss any details!
  • A Workflow Timeline: Plan exactly when you need to do what so the process is well-organized!
  • Email Swipe Copy: Copy/paste all the emails you’ll ever need to send to everyone during the ceremony creation process!

Private, Members-Only Facebook Group: Jump into the Unboring!Officiant community to give and get some love and support!


PERSONAL CEREMONY COACHING: Get a ceremony read-over and a 30-minute coaching call with me!

who is this course for?


Natalie the Notary

You're a Notary Public and weddings will be a way to generate new clients and make a positive impact on one of the biggest days of their lives.

Doug the Dad of the Bride

Your daughter just asked you to officiate her wedding and you don't want to screw this up. But you haven't the faintest clue how to do this.

Nick the New-At-This Minister

You're supposed to marry people - it's in your job description, after all! But divinity school didn't actually teach how to do a fun ceremony.

Norm the Not-Done-Yet Retiree

You've just taken that golden handshake and you've still got a twinkle in your eye and lot to offer the world.

Liz the Longtime Celebrant

You've officiated weddings for years, but it's time to bring some new life to your game 'cause times they are a-changing.

Brad the Buddy of the Groom

You're outgoing, funny, and you've emceed a bit before. But how the heck do you write a freaking wedding ceremony - let alone lead all the parts ?


If you’re a notary and you’re not officiating weddings, you’re leaving money on the table. Thinking about branching out and going pro? Unboring!Officiant is the proven, all-in-one, A-Z, step-by-step system you need to shake off your anxiety and to create, rehearse, and officiate an unboring wedding ceremony with some big-league chops!


Will this course make me legally certified to register weddings in my province or state?

No. While anyone can officiate a wedding ceremony, everywhere is different on the legal end of things. You have to fulfill whatever legal obligations are required of your state or province to register weddings with your local government.

That part is what my partner and your friend The Notary Coach is for!

Do I get access to everything all at once or do I have to wait?

No waiting! You get access to everything right away. You can attack the material at any pace you want.

What exactly do I get with the course?

Great question! As soon as you purchase, you will get immediate access (via user name and password) to the entire Unboring!Officiant program.

  • Lifetime access and login 24/7 (it is all digital so you can login to access the content & download the materials).
  • Content is available in video you can stream, and slides and tools you can download.
Is this course right for me? Meaning, will it "work" for me?

OK, so everyone’s situation is a little bit different and of course I can’t guarantee results (or some dudes with suits would probably show up to my door and we would have a problem), but I can give you the EXACT blueprint for success with this and all the tools, strategies and step-by-step hand-holding.

The course is definitely right for you if: you’ve been asked to officiate for a friend or family member and you have no idea where to start or how to put a wedding ceremony together. Or… you’re a member of the clergy whose job description it is to marry couples under your care and you want to become proficient officiating the latest and most contemporary style of wedding. Or… you’ve been clergy for a long time but feel that it’s time to update your technique and even branch out and officiate professionally. Or… you’ve officiated a couple of weddings and enjoyed it and now you’re looking for a slam-dunk approach that will make you highly sought-after and a system that is replicable so you can handle a high-volume of wedding requests. Or… if you’re fairly gregarious, confident, and looking for a career option that gives you very flexible hours with a high fee – whether on the side or full-time, this is going to be for you. 

The key “requirement” I’d say is definitely a positive attitude, being an action-taker and being “coachable.” Also, a real desire to not only learn BUT ACTUALLY IMPLEMENT (and a positive attitude always helps). I wish I would have known this stuff years ago when I started officiating (and learned it even earlier than I did). But I bumbled along for a few years cobbling ceremonies together, seeing what worked, and finding out “on the job” what didn’t work. (ouch). The course is NOT for you if: you are expecting “overnight results” with “very little effort/work involved” this; if this is you, my friend, then this is not for you.

I give you the EXACT blueprint and tell you want to do, but only you can actually do it, and yes, it involves getting in the trenches and doing work (that being said, I can take tons of time off your learning curve which is another benefit of the course). If you have a negative, crappy attitude, please don’t buy the course. Life is too short and we probably won’t get along – hah! Also, and this is a big one, if you “know all of this already and are a smarty, smarty pants” this might not be for you. My guess is I will be sharing with you in the course SOME things you already know and A LOT OF things you probably don’t do. But, this is the secret sauce, it is all put together as a system for you to go at it step-by-step. If you come in with the attitude that you know everything and are looking for some kind of magic fairy dust, this ain’t for you.

How long on average will it take for me to get results?

This obviously varies person to person with lots of factors. Everyone works at different speeds!

In a nutshell though: you could use this system to finish your ceremony in about 3-4 weeks if you fast-track it. Comfortably, I teach a 6-week process for creating the perfect ceremony from start to finish.

Now, of course that’s not 6 weeks of straight working on the ceremony! This 6 weeks includes sending a survey to your couple and waiting a week, and then sending a survey to their friends and family and waiting another week. A lot of the 6 weeks is waiting – you don’t want to be holding your couple’s feet to the fire when they’re working so hard spinning so many plates planning their wedding day.

As I say in the course: I have this system down to 12 total hours. Yep. 12 hours of total work – INCLUDING 4 HOURS OF COMMUTE TIME to and from the rehearsal and ceremony (yeah, Toronto traffic is a pain). It will take you a few runs at it to get there, as it did me.

But with some practice, you’ll go from shaking hands with your couple for the first time to pronouncing them married – in just 12 total hours.

Do I really get lifetime access?

YES! Whoop, whoop! That means never pay again!

Is Unboring!Officiant really step-by-step?

Absolutely! No guesswork. Just follow the system.

What side do the men stand on and what side do the ladies stand on in the ceremony?

Hey, focus! We’re not talking about that right now! (But the answer is: men on the right, women on the left. 😛 )

How long does it take to go through the course?

Each of the 6 steps is on average just under an hour – several “action” videos on average about 20 minutes each.

You can watch everything before you get started on your ceremony, or you can build your ceremony along as you go, step-by-step.

Mark, what if I want a refund? What's the policy?

So, here is the deal on refunds: I pride myself on a high quality program that actually works…if you put the work in. Meaning, if you do what I teach you, good things happen. If you don’t do it, nothing good happens. Shocking, right? 🙂 If within 30 days, you are unhappy for whatever reason, just email our customer support and you will receive a full refund. I stand behind Unboring!Officiant 100%.

I have a question, who should I ask?

Email me at [email protected]!

Will I get anything via snail mail?

Nope! Everything takes place online (all digital!) and not only can login anytime you want (and go at your own pace), you can also download all the tools and them with you.

Who gets seated last? The mother of the bride or the mother of the groom?

Geeez! You just can’t stop thinking about ceremony logistics for just two minutes, eh?? (Okay, the answer is: the mother of the bride gets seated last. But can we get back to talking about the course, please…?)

How do I get started & how much does it cost?

How much is Unboring!Officiant? You could try to figure it out on your own – spending hours on websites actually written to couples or tracking down books with quaint, outdated scripts. You could cobble together a ceremony and wonder: how’s this thing going to play with the crowd? Too formal? Too gimmicky? Will my couple like it? What surprises are going to pop up on the wedding day?

Or you can get a process and build a ceremony that 100% works and that couples and their guests will absolutely love.

The entire Unboring!Officiant step-by-step system is only $297 USD. Meaning you can get started and get full access today.

And yes, you will get full access to the program instantly with your payment. All modules. All downloads. All bonuses. So you can binge your heart out or take it slow. The choice is yours.

30 DAY GUARANTEE! risk free!

How about a full guarantee?

Unboring!Officiant comes with a 30-day 100% money back guarantee. I pride myself on a high quality program that actually works…if you put the work in. Meaning, if you do what I teach you, good things happen. If you don’t do it, nothing good happens.

Makes sense, right?!

If within 30 days, if you are unhappy for whatever reason, just email me and you will receive a full refund. I stand behind Unboring!Officiant 100%. I’ve never had a refund, and every week I consistently turn perplexed first-timers into confident masters of the ceremony who get rave reviews.

Enroll now and get your full how-to officiant kit right away!

$597297.00USD one-time

6 CLEAR, Easy-to-Follow Steps

24 TRAINING Videos

10 AWESOME Bonuses

ALL My Scripts & Templates


30 MINUTES of Personal Coaching

30-day 100% Money Back Guarantee

Got questions first? Email me directly at [email protected]

Here’s what enrolled students are saying IN THEIR RAVE REVIEWS OF unboring!officiant

“It was so much fun! I really wasn’t that nervous because of the confidence I had and it being a good ceremony based on your really awesome unboring format. I spoke with the bride and groom a couple days after, and they said that people are still coming up to them talking about that ceremony and how good it was. Nobody could believe it was my very first ceremony. Thanks again for making me look like a pro!”

Dana Crouse
Father of the Bride, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“After doing and attending weddings for the past couple of decades, I thought I had scooped up most of the good ideas, but this has injected new life into my ceremonies. Telling the couple’s story has now become the centrepiece of the ceremony in my weddings!”

Phil Shamas
Longtime Minister, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“Not only does Mark provide an incredibly clear, comprehensive and thoughtful guide to help officiate an amazing wedding, he does it with a very accessible, easy-to-understand, step-step-step plan. He really does take rookies and makes them pros!”

Christa Hesselink
Nonprofit Exec, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“When asked to officiate for my niece, I shivered with fear and doubt that I could meet the expectations that any bride would have, let alone my extraordinary niece.

I hunted the Internet and knew instantly Mark was going to be my officiant guru. His step-by-step program gave me a sense of order, process and control. I adapted my personal style, I adopted his structure, and I felt confident that Unboring!Officiant gave me all the tools needed to be the best version of myself and at the same time be a professional officiant that could accomplish the task at hand. 

I will be recommending Mark and Unboring!Officiant to every person I know who has the privilege of being asked to officiate a wedding!”

Phyl Clempson
Uncle of the Bride, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“I had decided to become a wedding officiant and found myself booked for 7 weddings in no time. I was panicking as I had no idea on what was involved, and it was really difficult to find any online resources.

I came across the Unboring!Officiant, and decided to buy the course. It was the best money I have spent! It gave me the confidence I was lacking. I used the course and the resources right away. It taught me what questions to ask and how to get a sense of the couple. During the entire time, Mark has been available for support and always responded quickly and with thorough answers. I felt like he wanted me to succeed.

I performed my first wedding with confidence and it was far beyond expectations! Mark’s course took my fear away because it gave me the tools to excel. Even better, I received rave reviews and on-the-spot positive feedback. Thank you, Mark and Unboring!Officiant – you showed me how to get the party started!”

Elizabeth Phillips
Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

It’s risk-free with a 30-day guarantee!

$597297.00USD one-time

6 CLEAR, Easy-to-Follow Steps

24 TRAINING Videos

10 AWESOME Bonuses

ALL My Scripts & Templates


30 MINUTES of Personal Coaching

30-day 100% Money Back Guarantee

Got questions first? Email me directly at [email protected]