Eliminate worry and overwhelm with the proven system to write and deliver a thrilling, jaw-dropping, pro-style wedding ceremony!

So you want to diversify your notary business, but the thought of a wedding ceremony gives you a headache. ‘Time to stop agonizing. Because I’m going to show you the step-by-step, 6-stage blueprint that will fully prepare you to stand in front of any wedding crowd with total confidence, wow your couple to laughs and happy tears, and thrill all their guests to raving cheers!

If writing the perfect wedding ceremony seems daunting when you’re already so busy as a notary…
If thinking through all the intricate details and custom elements of the wedding day ratchets up your anxiety…
If wedding-protocol questions and second-guessing are turning into worry…
If the ceremony-writing is starting to feel dull…
If you’ve got that nagging feeling that your script might be too long, or too short, or too gimmicky, or too awkward-sounding…
If you’re mortified at the thought of disappointing your couple and boring their guests…
If you’re starting to lose your enthusiasm about officiating a “just-okay” ceremony…
…Then you’re about to unlock all the confidence you need, nail down all the answers to your wedding questions, and write a ceremony script that will blow your couple and their guests away!


The first time I got asked to officiate a wedding over ten years ago, I was like every new officiant:
…Totally lost.
My first panicked move was to sift through dozens of wedding websites, copying and pasting more and more “good ideas” from the loads of canned scripts floating around on the Internet.
Before long, my script felt bloated and disjointed. And everything I pasted in sounded stilted and unnatural when I actually read it out loud.
So instead, I started writing a script from scratch and wondering about how to include my couple in the process.
But that’s when the questions really started to creep in.
…How do you keep the collaborative creation process simple and not annoy the couple with dozens of questions and emails?
…How do you guide the couple through the detail-planning like you actually know what you’re talking about – when it’s your first time?
…How do you craft a personal ceremony without it taking hours of rewrites and edits?
…How do you know what to look for when it comes to the ceremony elements and moving parts and stage directions… let alone run a rehearsal?
…How do you start and end the wedding ceremony so it’s not boring or cheesy?
The fact is: none of those downloaded “here-ya-go” scripts on the Internet come close to helping any first-time officiant feel proud and confident and 100% ready to crush it.
On the other hand, a script written from scratch without guidance feels rambling and risky.
And then when you’re finally done writing your script, it’s really just beginning.
Because then the wedding day arrives.
You wanna talk about cold feet?
It’s ceremony start time, and the wedding planner gives you the “it’s-go-time” nod.
The seats are packed with guests. You’ve got those butterflies in your stomach. You’re about to stride up there with hundreds of eyes on you…
…and you wish you had just a shred of confidence that what you’re about to say and do up there in front of all those people… works.


When I nervously walked up there to officiate those first few weddings – hands shaking and knees weak – I yearned for the confidence that what I was about to deliver was any good.
I didn’t have that confidence. It took dozens of ceremonies.
But you? You can bypass all those mistakes and all that uncertainty and skip right to the Awe-Inspiring…
…by tapping into a full-time pro’s years of experience and hundreds of electrifying weddings.
I’ve created for you the program I wished existed when I started out with all those questions and worries and fears.
Unboring!Officiant is the full online course that teaches you step-by-step exactly how to write and deliver the kind of unboring wedding ceremony you’ve only dreamed of creating!
From the ceremony planning meeting with your couple to sending them down the aisle just-married, you’ll be totally confident. You’ll know exactly how to build a fun and riveting ceremony. You’ll know what to expect at every stage – down to the last detail.
And here’s the best part: your couple will know you’re working on a smashing wedding ceremony, and they’ll be so excited to get down the aisle and see what you’ve created for them on the wedding day.
How do I know?
Because I do it every weekend. And hundreds of first-time Unboring!Officiants do it, too!
They expect a decent ceremony, and you’ll 100% overdeliver – with laughs and tears and all the feels And your elated newlyweds able to say, “Our unboring wedding ceremony was the very best part of our day!”


Unboring!Officiant is packed with everything you need to do this like a pro – even if it’s your very first time!
Just some of what you’ll learn:
  • Write your couple’s love story in less than three hours with a proven formula. It’s the centrepiece of the wedding and will leave everyone raving that it was the “best ceremony ever!”
  • Collecting too much information from your couple means drowning in information; getting too little means having nothing to work with. Five simple questions are the sweet spot for the ultimate officiant speech.
  • What you need to do the moment something unexpected happens in the ceremony. Say this and rescue the moment. Don’t, and everyone will feel uncomfortable.
  • What never to do in the wedding rehearsal. (If you get this wrong, your couple and their wedding party won’t trust you nearly as much.)
  • Write and edit your script with Google docs. Sharing an online document together reduces email fatigue and text-message clutter for you and your couple.
  • Asking your couple a dozen or even half-a-dozen questions is too many. My simple 5-question survey means you get all the data you need to write your couple’s incomparable love story.
  • Use the Unboring!Officiant method and write a guaranteed incredible ceremony in 6 writing sessions instead of weeks. From your planning meeting to your final draft, 6 concise sit-downs will save you hours of guesswork.
  • If you’re nervous about something going wrong during the ceremony, this is the one thing you can do to rescue the moment.
  • The perfect unboring wedding ceremony means multiple meetings and time-consuming conversations with your couple, right? Wrong!
  • The truth about wedding vows. It’s not rocket science, and your couple only needs these three options and one fill-in-the blank.
  • The single most important piece of advice to give everyone who is walking down the aisle.
  • How to get everyone laughing with your opening remarks about photos whether your couple allows photos or not!
  • Three things to tell your couple in their ceremony planning session to skyrocket their trust in you from that moment to their wedding day.
  • The sneaky secret about interviewing your couple that most officiants don’t know. It will unlock the magic in their love story the way nothing else can.
  • Better than a canned script. A single meeting using my proven spreadsheet allows you to build the ultimate custom ceremony with your couple.
  • What never to wear as an officiant (if you don’t want your couple to resent your fashion choice for their wedding).
  • Do you know the 10 details to look for and practice at the wedding rehearsal? They’ll make or break the ceremony.
  • The reasons why you need to read your entire script out loud before the wedding. Don’t, and you’ll never catch these three crucial blindspots.
  • The secret to breaking the ice with the guests and getting them all on your side from the moment you start talking in the ceremony.
  • Do you know the 4 things you need to check when you arrive to guarantee that the ceremony runs smoothly?
  • The Four Proven Parts of an Unboring Officiant Speech:
– An opening technique that grabs your audience’s attention and puts them on the edge of their seat;
– A love story that covers these three pivotal moments in your couple’s history together;
– The ‘love-about’ section: the icing on the cake that makes everyone laugh and happy-cry;
– A rousing closing that transitions seamlessly into the next elements of the ceremony.


“When I saw Mark's course, I was like, 'If he already gave all this great info for free, what's in the course must be spectacular!' And I was right. The insight he provides, how to compile the special story, the spreadsheet, all genius!”

— Gil Sanchez, Cousin of the Bride, Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“I was able to be super prepared thanks to Mark Allan Groleau's Unboring!Officiant course. Thank you! The parents and guests raved about the ceremony. Best investment I ever made!”

— Ebony Mzila, First-Time Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“It was worth every penny - and more.”

— Shamim Pirani, Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“It was so much fun! I spoke with the bride and groom a couple of days after, and they said that people are still coming up to them talking about that ceremony and how good it was. Nobody could believe it was my very first ceremony. Thanks again for making me look like a pro!”

— Dana Crouse, father of the bride, enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“I truly love Unboring!Officiant!”

— Amy Wallace: Professional Officiant and Speaker, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“After doing and attending weddings for the past couple of decades, I thought I had scooped up most of the good ideas, but this has injected new life into my ceremonies. Telling the couple's story has now become the centrepiece of the ceremony in my weddings!”

— Phil Shamas, longtime minister, enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“Not only does Mark provide an incredibly clear, comprehensive and thoughtful guide to help officiate an amazing wedding, he does it with a very accessible, easy-to-understand, step-step-step plan. He really does take rookies and makes them pros!”

— Christa Hesselink, nonprofit exec, enrolled Unboring!Officiant


“Unboring!Officiant changed my life.”

— Kathryn Rowan Lischerelli, Friend of the Couple, Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“When asked to officiate for my niece, I shivered with fear and doubt that I could meet the expectations that any bride would have, let alone my extraordinary niece. I hunted the Internet and knew instantly Mark was going to be my officiant guru. His step-by-step program gave me a sense of order, process and control. I will be recommending Mark and Unboring!Officiant to every person I know who has the privilege of being asked to officiate a wedding!”

— Phyl Clempson, uncle of the bride, enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“I had decided to become a wedding officiant and found myself booked for 7 weddings in no time. I was panicking as I had no idea what was involved, and it was really difficult to find any online resources. I came across the Unboring!Officiant, and decided to buy the course. It was the best money I have spent! It gave me the confidence I was lacking. Mark's course took my fear away because it gave me the tools to excel. Even better, I received rave reviews and on-the-spot positive feedback. Thank you, Mark and Unboring!Officiant - you showed me how to get the party started!”

— Elizabeth Phillips, newly-professional officiant, enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“Whether you're doing a one-time wedding or starting a business: if you want your service to stand out, take this course.”

— Gil Sanchez, Cousin of the Bride, Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“My first wedding was a huge success! Everything was perfect. I was so relaxed with the script you provided. After the ceremony, the planner came up and said, ‘Wow, that was great...how many weddings have you done...you seem so natural.’ I kinda skirted the question and just said thank you and asked her if I could help her we anything else. I could not have done this without you. I contribute my entire success to you. The script was perfect....so personal. Everybody was so pleased. Much gratitude!”

— Rebecca Thompson, Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“It went great! I had lots of comments from guests, and was told by the bride and groom that they loved the ceremony and that they had people saying they loved it! I already had someone asking the bride if she thought I might do his wedding later this year! I can’t thank you enough for the course and the attention to detail you provide. You were truly a godsend! Thank you, thank you!”

— Bruce Montgomery, Father of the Bride, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“I’m still coming down from the high! Everything went perfect. I got a 'standing ovation' when I walked into the reception. I also had three people who were interested in having me officiate their wedding in the fall. The photographers gave me kudos, and the trio playing the music said they’ve never seen a wedding officiated in the way I did it. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU Mark!”

— Jason Torres, Friend of the Groom, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“You made it so incredibly easy.”

— Jack Walker: Life Coach @ TiffandJack.com, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant


After I came through the brutal learning curve and learned a ton from trial and error, I came to love officiating weddings.
I decided I wanted to do it a lot, so I created for myself a style and a system that I could follow and replicate week-in and week-out.
The result: I started getting rave reviews from amazed couples and wedding guests every weekend.
I got booked solid. I had couples flying me out to officiate their weddings.
I had officiants asking me how I did it.
But here’s the thing. I can only be in one place at one time.
So I started sharing my style and my system with the world.
Here’s what’s happened: now new and first-time officiants from Milwaukee to Melbourne are feeling the relief and the thrill of a guaranteed unboring ceremony with personal professional guidance.
You start at Step One: my ceremony-planning spreadsheet, learn how to expertly guide your couple through a one-hour ceremony planning meeting, and just follow my steps from there to bring it all together.
  • Login 24/7 (all digital with downloadable tools, templates, and samples) so you can work on what you want, when you want.
  • Literally step-by-step from the first couple-planning session to the end goal so you know every box is getting ticked.
  • Every tool I use in my professional process so you never have to look at a blank screen and agonize over what to write.
  • My ceremony planning spreadsheet, email copy, couple survey forms, full ceremony script, story worksheet, etc. so you never have to invent anything.
It’s all yours: A-Z resources, step-by-step guidance, and full support – your ticket to relief.
Get started on building your ceremony and your confidence in the next few minutes. The moment you purchase, you get your login link and full access to the style and the system that will awe your couple and thrill their guests.
Step One: Conduct a Thorough Workshop
  • Exactly how to conduct a one-hour brainstorm/planning session with your couple.
  • 5 video action steps for guiding your couple through all the details, options, and elements of their ceremony.
  • My downloadable Google Sheets spreadsheet to fill out with the couple in the session.
Step Two: Build a Concise Storyboard
  • Exactly how to build a concise storyboard with all the data and intel you need to write an awesome love story about your couple.
  • 3 video action steps on exactly how to adapt and send my Google Forms templates to your couple and their family and friends.
  • My downloadable Google Forms – yours to keep forever!
Step Three: Create a Clear Script
  • Exactly how to put together a clear, “movie-style” script.
  • 4 video action steps for building out the wording, stage directions, times, and people – and making the working script sharable with your couple.
  • My downloadable Google Docs ceremony script template for you to use for your own wedding.
Step Four: Write a Moving Story
  • Exactly how to write a fun and moving story that will thrill your couple and wow their guests!
  • 5 video action steps that walk you through exactly how to write the distinct sections of the story and practice the delivery.
  • And this is where I really give away the farm: my downloadable Google Docs story script and template for you to swipe and adapt. What’s mine is now all yours!
Step Five: Run an Assertive Rehearsal
  • Exactly how to run a tight and fun rehearsal.
  • 4 video action steps on exactly how to lead your couple and all their family and friends through the walking, standing, and most important choreography of the ceremony.
  • Covers the 3 parts of a 40-minute rehearsal and what to look for + my downloadable checklist you can bring right into the rehearsal.
Step Six: Officiate a Relaxed Wedding
  • How to be a relaxed and confident presence on the wedding day (when everyone else is a stress-ball!).
  • 3 video action steps on exactly what to check for and how to connect with vendors when you arrive.
  • What to say to begin the ceremony so you can tastefully break the ice and get all the guests warmed up and “on your side.”
Bonus One: Samples
  • Sample Vows: Look no further for a menu of perfect vows for your script!
  • A Full Sample Wedding Script: See exactly what your finished ceremony will look like!
  • 10 Sample Stories: To inspire your style and content!
Bonus Two: Video Demo
  • Story Reading Demonstration: I read one of my full signature stories to give you a sense of the pacing and tone that works best.
Bonus Three: Checklists
  • Workflow Checklist: Check off exactly what tasks you’ve completed so nothing falls through the cracks!
  • Rehearsal Checklist: Bring this right into the rehearsal to make sure you don’t miss any details!
Bonus Four: Email Copy
  • Email Copy: Copy/paste all the emails you’ll ever need to send to your couple and their family and friends in the ceremony creation process!
Bonus Five: Facebook Group
  • Private, Members-Only Facebook Group: Jump into the Unboring!Officiant community to give and get some love and support!
VIP Bonus Six: Private Coaching
  • Personal 1-on-1 Coaching: Get a ceremony read-over and a 30-minute coaching call with me!


The average cost of a wedding in North America is over $30,000.
That means right this minute the couple that will end up hiring you are spending at least $5,000, maybe $10,000, or most likely over $30,000 making sure every detail of their wedding day is perfect for everyone.
Here’s the million-dollar question:
How much is it worth to rise far above everyone’s expectations and totally ace the ceremony on a thirty-thousand-dollar wedding day?
$1500? $750?
That’s where Unboring!Officiant comes in – and it comes down to way less than that.
My one-of-a-kind, 100%-proven, save-you-hours-and-knock-their-socks-off system is regularly priced at only $597.
But for friends of Bill Soroka, Unboring!Officiant is all yours for half of that. That’s just $297.00!
$297.00 for the only online course for new wedding officiants that guarantees you’ll absolutely crush it? Yep!
Click below, take action today, and get started immediately. You, every couple you marry, and everyone at their weddings will be overjoyed that you did!


If within 30 days, you are unhappy for whatever reason, just email me and you will receive a full and courteous refund. I stand behind Unboring!Officiant 100%, and every month I help transform perplexed first-timers into confident masters of the ceremony who get rave reviews.

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  • 24 TRAINING Videos
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  • ALL Mark’s Scripts & Templates
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Got questions first? Email Mark directly at [email protected]!


Will this course make me legally certified to register weddings in my province or state?

No. While anyone can officiate a wedding ceremony, everywhere is different on the legal end of things. You have to fulfill whatever legal obligations are required of your state or province to register weddings with your local government.

A couple of alternatives (pun intended!): your couple can get an honorary legal officiant to attend, witness, and sign (they usually charge two hundred bucks for this or something like that); or, they can go to their local courthouse or city hall to get the legalities taken care of before or after your ceremony (again: usually one or two hundred bucks).

Do I get access to everything all at once or do I have to wait?

No waiting! You get access to everything right away. You can attack the material at any pace you want.

What exactly do I get with the course?

Great question! As soon as you purchase, you will get immediate access (via user name and password) to the entire Unboring!Officiant program.

  • Lifetime access and login 24/7 (it is all digital so you can login to access the content & download the materials).
  • Content is available in video you can stream, and slides and tools you can download.

Is this course right for me? Meaning, will it "work" for me?

OK, so everyone’s situation is a little bit different and of course I can’t guarantee results (or some dudes with suits would probably show up to my door and we would have a problem), but I can give you the EXACT blueprint for success with this and all the tools, strategies and step-by-step hand-holding.

The course is definitely right for you if: you’ve been asked to officiate for a friend or family member and you have no idea where to start or how to put a wedding ceremony together. Or… you’re a member of the clergy whose job description it is to marry couples under your care and you want to become proficient officiating the latest and most contemporary style of wedding. Or… you’ve been clergy for a long time but feel that it’s time to update your technique and even branch out and officiate professionally. Or… you’ve officiated a couple of weddings and enjoyed it and now you’re looking for a slam-dunk approach that will make you highly sought-after and a system that is replicable so you can handle a high-volume of wedding requests. Or… if you’re fairly gregarious, confident, and looking for a career option that gives you very flexible hours with a high fee – whether on the side or full-time, this is going to be for you.

How long on average will it take for me to get results?

This obviously varies person to person with lots of factors. Everyone works at different speeds!

In a nutshell though: you could use this system to finish your ceremony in about 3-4 weeks if you fast-track it. Comfortably, I teach a 6-week process for creating the perfect ceremony from start to finish.

Now, of course that’s not 6 weeks of straight working on the ceremony! This 6 weeks includes sending a survey to your couple and waiting a week, and then sending a survey to their friends and family and waiting another week. A lot of the 6 weeks is waiting – you don’t want to be holding your couple’s feet to the fire when they’re working so hard spinning so many plates planning their wedding day.

As I say in the course: I have this system down to 12 total hours. Yep. 12 hours of total work – INCLUDING 4 HOURS OF COMMUTE TIME to and from the rehearsal and ceremony (yeah, Toronto traffic is a pain). It will take you a few runs at it to get there, as it did me.

But with some practice, you’ll go from shaking hands with your couple for the first time to pronouncing them married – in just 12 total hours.

Do I really get lifetime access?

YES! Whoop, whoop! That means never pay again!

Is Unboring!Officiant really step-by-step?

Absolutely! No guesswork. Just follow the system.

What side do the men stand on and what side do the ladies stand on in the ceremony?

Hey, focus! We’re not talking about that right now! (But the answer is: men on the right, women on the left. 😛 )

How long does it take to go through the course?

Each of the 6 steps is on average just under an hour – several “action” videos on average about 20 minutes each.

You can watch everything before you get started on your ceremony, or you can build your ceremony along as you go, step-by-step.

Mark, what if I want a refund? What's the policy?

So, here is the deal on refunds: I pride myself on a high quality program that actually works…if you put the work in. Meaning, if you do what I teach you, good things happen. If you don’t do it, nothing good happens. Shocking, right? 🙂 If within 30 days, you are unhappy for whatever reason, just email our customer support and you will receive a full refund. I stand behind Unboring!Officiant 100%.

I have a question, who should I ask?

Email me at [email protected]!

Will I get anything via snail mail?

Nope! Everything takes place online (all digital!) and not only can login anytime you want (and go at your own pace), you can also download all the tools and them with you.

Who gets seated last? The mother of the bride or the mother of the groom?

Geeez! You just can’t stop thinking about ceremony logistics for just two minutes, eh?? (Okay, the answer is: the mother of the bride gets seated last. But can we focus on the course, please…? 🤣)

Will this course teach me how to start an officiating business?

No. This course focuses on the nuts and bolts of the best wedding ceremony ever. The sequel to this course teaches the “business” side of officiating and how to land clients, but this course assumes you have a couple to marry or know where to find a couple who wants to get married.

If you’re trying to get an officiating practice off the ground, grab this course and crush your first unboring-style ceremony. Then take Part 2 – Unboring!Officiant: PRO.