‘Want your hand-picked first-time officiant to craft the kind of wedding experience that you and your guests will actually love – without all the guesswork?

I take first-timers and teach ’em to deliver an incredible pro-style ceremony. On their first try!

They start with my ceremony-planning spreadsheet and just follow the steps from there.
Unboring!Officiant is a 6-module step-by-step digital course that walks them through exactly how to plan, create, rehearse, and officiate a wedding ceremony and gives them every tool and resource they need to craft the kind of experience that you and your guests are desperately hoping for.
  • Login 24/7 (all digital with downloadable tools, templates, and samples).
  • Literally step-by-step from the first couple-planning session to the end goal – the wedding day. Nothing is left out. No unnecessary fluff or shenanigans.
  • Every tool I use in my professional process so they never have to look at a blank screen and agonize over what to write.
  • My ceremony planning spreadsheet, email copy, couple survey forms, full ceremony script, story worksheet, etc.
  • The coaching and community to craft a moving ceremony experience that you and your guests actually love.

“When I saw Mark's course, I was like, 'If he already gave all this great info for free, what's in the course must be spectacular!' And I was right. The insight he provides, how to compile the special story, the spreadsheet, all genius!”

— Gil Sanchez, First-Time Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“I was able to be super prepared thanks to Mark Allan Groleau's Unboring!Officiant course. Thank you! The parents and guests raved about the ceremony. Best investment I ever made!”

— Ebony Mzila, First-Time Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

From the first meeting with you to sending you down the aisle just-married, Unboring!Officiant teaches your officiant how to build the ceremony and what to expect at every step – down to the last detail.

Step One: Conduct a Thorough Workshop
  • Exactly how they can conduct a one-hour brainstorm/planning session with you.
  • 5 video action steps for guiding you through all the details, options, and elements of your ceremony.
  • My downloadable Google Sheets spreadsheet to fill out with you in the session.
Step Two: Build a Concise Storyboard
  • Exactly how to build a concise storyboard with all the data and intel they’ll need to write an awesome ceremony story – about you!
  • 3 video action steps teaching them exactly how to adapt, send, and use my Google Forms templates to survey you and your family and friends.
  • My downloadable Google Forms – theirs to keep forever!
Step Three: Create a Clear Script
  • Exactly how to put together a clear, “movie-style” script.
  • 4 video action steps for building out the wording, stage directions, times, and people – and making the working script sharable with you, the wedding couple.
  • My downloadable Google Docs ceremony script template for them to use for your wedding.
Step Four: Write a Moving Story
  • Exactly how to write a fun and moving story that will thrill you and wow your guests!
  • 5 video action steps that walk them through exactly how to write the distinct sections of the story and practice the delivery.
  • And this is where I really give away the farm: my downloadable Google Docs story script and template for them to swipe and adapt. What’s mine is now all theirs!
Step Five: Run an Assertive Rehearsal
  • Exactly how to run a tight and fun rehearsal.
  • 4 video action steps on exactly how to lead you and all your family and friends through the walking, standing, and most important choreography of the ceremony.
  • Covers the 3 parts of a 40-minute rehearsal and what to look for + my downloadable checklist they can bring right into the rehearsal. 
Step Six: Officiate a Relaxed Wedding
  • How to be a relaxed and confident presence on the wedding day (when everyone else is a stress-ball!).
  • 3 video action steps on exactly what to check for and how to connect with vendors when they arrive.
  • What to say to begin the ceremony so they can tastefully break the ice and get all your guests warmed up and “on their side.”
Bonus One: Samples
  • Sample Vows: Look no further for a menu of perfect vows for your script!
  • A Full Sample Wedding Script: See exactly what your finished ceremony will look like!
  • 10 Sample Stories: To inspire your style and content!
Bonus Two: Video Demo
  • Story Reading Demonstration: I read one of my full signature stories to give you a sense of the pacing and tone that works best.
Bonus Three: Checklists
  • Workflow Checklist: Check off exactly what tasks you’ve completed so nothing falls through the cracks!
  • Rehearsal Checklist: Bring this right into the rehearsal to make sure you don’t miss any details!
Bonus Four: Email Copy
  • Email Copy: Copy/paste all the emails you’ll ever need to send to your couple and their family and friends in the ceremony creation process!
Bonus Five: Facebook Group
  • Private, Members-Only Facebook Group: Jump into the Unboring!Officiant community to give and get some love and support!
VIP Bonus Six: Private Coaching
  • Personal 1-on-1 Coaching: Get a ceremony read-over and a 30-minute coaching call with me!

How do I get started and how much does it cost?

How much is Unboring!Officiant? Your officiant could try to figure it out on their own – spending hours on websites actually written for brides or tracking down books with quaint, outdated scripts. they could cobble together a ceremony and wonder: how’s this thing going to play with the crowd? Too formal? Too gimmicky? Will my couple like it? What surprises are going to pop up on the wedding day? OR: you could do all the work as a courtesy to them and do all that Googling and cobbling yourself while you juggle all your other vendors.
OR: you can let me make your officiant look like a pro.
Get the step-by-step blueprint to building a ceremony that 100% works and that you and your guests will absolutely love. No guesswork. No unpleasant wedding-day surprises. 
The entire Unboring!Officiant system is only $297 USD. Meaning your officiant can get started and get full access today. And yes, they’ll get full access to the program instantly with your payment. All modules. All downloads. All bonuses. So they can binge their heart out or take it slow. The choice is theirs!

Here’s what enrolled students are saying in their rave reviews of Unboring!Officiant:

“It was so much fun! I really wasn’t that nervous because of the confidence I had and it being a good ceremony based on your really awesome unboring format. I spoke with the bride and groom a couple of days after, and they said that people are still coming up to them talking about that ceremony and how good it was. Nobody could believe it was my very first ceremony. Thanks again for making me look like a pro!”

— Dana Crouse, father of the bride, enrolled Unboring!Officiant


“Unboring!Officiant changed my life.”

— Kathryn Rowan Lischerelli, Friend of the Couple, Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“After doing and attending weddings for the past couple of decades, I thought I had scooped up most of the good ideas, but this has injected new life into my ceremonies. Telling the couple's story has now become the centrepiece of the ceremony in my weddings!”

— Phil Shamas, longtime minister, enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“Not only does Mark provide an incredibly clear, comprehensive and thoughtful guide to help officiate an amazing wedding, he does it with a very accessible, easy-to-understand, step-step-step plan. He really does take rookies and makes them pros!”

— Christa Hesselink, nonprofit exec, enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“When asked to officiate for my niece, I shivered with fear and doubt that I could meet the expectations that any bride would have, let alone my extraordinary niece. I hunted the Internet and knew instantly Mark was going to be my officiant guru. His step-by-step program gave me a sense of order, process and control. I adapted my personal style, I adopted his structure, and I felt confident that Unboring!Officiant gave me all the tools needed to be the best version of myself and at the same time be a professional officiant that could accomplish the task at hand. I will be recommending Mark and Unboring!Officiant to every person I know who has the privilege of being asked to officiate a wedding!”

— Phyl Clempson, uncle of the bride, enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“I had decided to become a wedding officiant and found myself booked for 7 weddings in no time. I was panicking as I had no idea on what was involved, and it was really difficult to find any online resources. I came across the Unboring!Officiant, and decided to buy the course. It was the best money I have spent! It gave me the confidence I was lacking. I used the course and the resources right away. It taught me what questions to ask and how to get a sense of the couple. During the entire time, Mark has been available for support and always responded quickly and with thorough answers. I felt like he wanted me to succeed. I performed my first wedding with confidence and it was far beyond expectations! Mark's course took my fear away because it gave me the tools to excel. Even better, I received rave reviews and on-the-spot positive feedback. Thank you, Mark and Unboring!Officiant - you showed me how to get the party started!”

— Elizabeth Phillips, newly-professional officiant, enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“Whether you're doing a one-time wedding or starting a business: if you want your service to stand out, take this course.”

— Gil Sanchez, Cousin of the Bride, Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

How about some guaranteed satisfaction?

Unboring!Officiant comes with a 30-day, 100% money-back guarantee.

I pride myself on a high-quality program that actually works… when you put the work in. Meaning, when you do what I teach you and follow the steps, good things happen. If you don’t do it, nothing good happens.
Makes sense, right?!
If within 30 days, you are unhappy for whatever reason, just email me and you will receive a full refund. I stand behind Unboring!Officiant 100%, and every month I help transform perplexed first-timers into confident masters of the ceremony who get rave reviews.

“My first wedding was a huge success! Everything was perfect. I was so relaxed with the script you provided. Lots of laughs, a few tears (none by me!) and many guests coming up later to say how much they loved it. After the ceremony, the planner came up and said, ‘Wow, that was many weddings have you seem so natural.’ I kinda skirted the question and just said thank you and asked her if I could help her we anything else. I could not have done this without you. I contribute my entire success to you. The script was personal. Everybody was so pleased. I appreciate you took the time to call and coach me last week. I made all the changes you recommended and it was perfect. Much gratitude!”

— Rebecca Thompson, Newly-Professional Officiant, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“It went great! I had lots of comments from guests, and was told by the bride and groom that they loved the ceremony and that they had people saying they loved it! In fact the groom said he had more people complimenting the ceremony than he did saying he looked good! I already had someone asking the bride if she thought I might do his wedding later this year! I can’t thank you enough for the course and the attention to detail you provide. You were truly a godsend! I also appreciate the time you took to read my story and talk to me about it on the phone. Thank you, thank you!”

— Bruce Montgomery, Father of the Bride, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“Wow wow WOW! My first ceremony went ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! I’m still coming down from the high! Everything went perfect. The rehearsal was great and it really set the tone for the ceremony. I noticed how people were excited and looking forward to having me officiate the wedding just from what I did during the rehearsal process. And the actual ceremony was beautiful. I got a 'standing ovation' when I walked into the reception. I also had three people who were interested in having me officiate their wedding in the fall. The photographers gave me kudos, the trio playing the music said they’ve never seen a wedding officiated in the way I did it; and, the close friends of the bride and groom who already knew the story shared that they were on the edge of their seats to know what happens next…AND THEY ALREADY KNEW WHAT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN! Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU Mark - for creating this course and for the coaching call that really helped me! Talking with you put me at ease and gave me the confidence to do this. First wedding in the books and many many more to come because I want to keep doing this.”

— Jason Torres, Friend of the Groom, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

“You made it so incredibly easy.”

— Jack Walker: Life Coach @, Enrolled Unboring!Officiant

Risk-free, guaranteed training and coaching from a proven professional.


$597.00 297.00


After purchase you’ll get a gift enrollment link to send to your officiant instantly!

6 CLEAR, Easy-to-Follow Steps

24 TRAINING Videos

10 AWESOME Bonuses

ALL My Scripts & Templates


30 MINUTES of Personal Coaching

30-day 100% Money Back Guarantee


$597.00 297.00


After purchase you’ll get your own login link instantly!

6 CLEAR, Easy-to-Follow Steps

24 TRAINING Videos

10 AWESOME Bonuses

ALL My Scripts & Templates


30 MINUTES of Personal Coaching

30-day 100% Money Back Guarantee

Got questions first? Email me directly at [email protected]


Will this course make my officiant legally certified to register weddings in my province or state?

No. While anyone can officiate a wedding ceremony, everywhere is different on the legal end of things. They have to fulfill whatever legal obligations are required of your state or province to register weddings with your local government.

Do they get access to everything all at once or do they have to wait?

No waiting! They get access to everything right away. They can attack the material at any pace they want.

What exactly do I get with the course?

Great question! As soon as you purchase, you will get a link with code that you can send to your officiant immediately. They will get immediate access (via user name and password) to the entire Unboring!Officiant program. If you decide to purchase for yourself, you get immediate access.

  • Lifetime access and login 24/7 (it is all digital so they can login to access the content & download the materials).
  • Content is available in video they can stream, and slides and tools they can download.

Is this course right for them? Meaning, will it "work" for them?

OK, so everyone’s situation is a little bit different and of course I can’t guarantee results (or some dudes with suits would probably show up to my door and we would have a problem), but I can give you the EXACT blueprint for success with this and all the tools, strategies and step-by-step hand-holding.

The course is definitely right for them if: they’ve been asked to officiate for you have no idea where to start or how to put a wedding ceremony together. 

The key “requirement” I’d say is definitely a positive attitude, being an action-taker and being “coachable.” Also, a real desire to not only learn BUT ACTUALLY IMPLEMENT (and a positive attitude always helps). I wish I would have known this stuff years ago when I started officiating (and learned it even earlier than I did). But I bumbled along for a few years cobbling ceremonies together, seeing what worked, and finding out “on the job” what didn’t work. (ouch). The course is NOT for them if: they are expecting “overnight results” with “very little effort/work involved” this; if this is them, my friend, then this is not for them.

I give them the EXACT blueprint and tell them want to do, but only they can actually do it, and yes, it involves getting in the trenches and doing work (that being said, I will take tons of time off their learning curve which is another benefit of the course). If they have a negative, crappy attitude, please don’t buy the course. Life is too short and we probably won’t get along – hah! Also, and this is a big one, if they “know all of this already and are a smarty, smarty pants” this might not be for them. My guess is I will be sharing with them in the course SOME things they already know and A LOT OF things they probably don’t do. But, this is the secret sauce, it is all put together as a system for them to go at it step-by-step. If they come in with the attitude that they know everything and are looking for some kind of magic fairy dust, this ain’t for them.

How long on average will it take for them to get results?

This obviously varies person to person with lots of factors. Everyone works at different speeds!

In a nutshell though: they could use this system to finish your ceremony in about 3-4 weeks if they fast-track it. Comfortably, I teach a 6-week process for creating the perfect ceremony from start to finish.

Now, of course that’s not 6 weeks of straight working on the ceremony! This 6 weeks includes sending a survey to you and waiting a week, and then sending a survey to your friends and family and waiting another week. A lot of the 6 weeks is waiting – they don’t want to be holding your feet to the fire when you’re working so hard spinning so many plates planning your wedding day.

As I say in the course: I have this system down to 12 total hours. Yep. 12 hours of total work – INCLUDING 4 HOURS OF COMMUTE TIME to and from the rehearsal and ceremony (yeah, traffic is a pain). It will might take them a bit longer as a first-timer, but my 1-on-1 coaching call and direct support is designed to cut that down.

Do they really get lifetime access?

YES! Whoop, whoop! That means never pay again!

Is Unboring!Officiant really step-by-step?

Absolutely! No guesswork. Just follow the system.

What side do the men stand on and what side do the ladies stand on in the ceremony?

Hey, focus! We’re not talking about that right now! (But the answer is: men on the right, women on the left. 😛 )

How long does it take to go through the course?

Each of the 6 steps is on average just under an hour – several “action” videos on average about 20 minutes each.

They can watch everything before they get started on your ceremony, or they can build your ceremony along as they go, step-by-step.

Mark, what if I want a refund? What's the policy?

So, here is the deal on refunds: I pride myself on a high quality program that actually works…if they put the work in. Meaning, if they do what I teach, good things happen. If they don’t do it, nothing good happens. Shocking, right? 🙂 If within 30 days, they’re unhappy for whatever reason, just email our customer support and you will receive a full refund. I stand behind Unboring!Officiant 100%.

I have a question, who should I ask?

Email me at [email protected]!

Will I get anything via snail mail?

Nope! Everything takes place online (all digital!) and not only can they login anytime they want (and go at their own pace), they can also download all the tools and take them along wherever.

Who gets seated last? The mother of the bride or the mother of the groom?

Geeez! You just can’t stop thinking about your ceremony logistics for just two minutes, eh?? (Okay, the answer is: the mother of the bride gets seated last. But can we get back to talking about the course, please…? :P)

When I buy the course as a gift, do I get access as well?

The membership and training is just for your friend or family member to access. As part of the training, I teach how they will share with you the relevant script and survey and story so you can collaborate along with them as it comes together.